I'm sorry, but this sort of software is a cause of distrust and resentment between kids and parents. If you're a parent you should be able to trust your kid - if you can't, then you've failed as a parent. And if you trust your kid, you obviously don't need this software. If you're a kid and you find out that your parent is monitoring your computer usage (any reasonably computer-savvy kid should be able to do that fairly easily), then that severely damages the trust the kid has with the parent.

If you want to keep your kid from "sneaking around behind your back", then educate your kid. Teach them what's right and wrong and instill good values in them. Don't spy on them.

And if you want to keep your kid from becoming a recluse with their computer and the internet, you don't do that by spying on them. You do that by getting them involved in activities (that they like - don't force stuff on them, that's even worse), encouraging them to make friends and to hang out with said friends, etc. And remember, kids don't become recluses just because they're exposed to the internet - there's usually some reason for them to want to retreat from the world. Find out what it is and help them (maybe they need to make new friends, maybe they're depressed, etc.). Don't spy on them.

And this is spoken from the viewpoint of a college student who grew up with computers and the internet and knows what he's talking about. I went through a phase where I spent most of my time on my computer and the internet. My parents didn't spy on me - they simply bought me a clamshell iBook and told me to sit in the family room when I was using my computer - that way I interacted with my family and wasn't shut up in my room. And I soon outgrew that phase and started hanging out with my friends again.

And if you really insist on distributing this software, at least get rid of the godawful metal look.